Sunday, 17 August 2025

Can you find what you're looking for? By Steve Way

 

There are several things we men aren’t good at and women aren’t supposed to be able to read maps, though it turns out my twelve-year-old granddaughter is brilliant at doing so: so, so much for the science, or whatever it is. (I seemed to manage to legitimately use the word ‘so’ three times in sequence just then – is that allowed?*)

I only know that when it comes to helping me find things, my beloved wife has been known to be conservative in her use of adjectives. I particularly remember one occasion when I was in our kitchen and called upstairs to her to ask where something was. She shouted down, in her resigned, how-can-he-possibly-not-know-this voice, “It’s in the drawer!”

Yes… I admit it, I’m a pedant. I temporarily abandoned my search and counted the number of drawers in the kitchen. Now admittedly a few of them were those tiny drawers that only small dead batteries live in and couldn’t have possibly contained whatever it was I was looking for, but I did get to about nineteen in my tally. I then, as it turned out, looked in around six or seven drawers-that-were-drawers-but-not-THE-drawer before finally finding what I was looking for in THE-drawer-that-isn’t-one-of-the-other-drawers-you-idiot. It was clear, when I light-heartedly as a pedant can, remonstrated about this with my wife later on, she still couldn’t understand how I failed to understand which out of so many drawers was THE drawer.

I will confess, as I did a few blogs ago, to a habit of looking twice somewhere when I’m looking for something, as though by magic it will suddenly appear where it isn’t. I’ve wondered whether this is because psychologically it’s more comforting searching somewhere familiar rather than exploring new ground, even though this is far more likely to prove fruitful. Oddly, once in a blue moon this technique does work, possibly based on another layer of psychological complexity based on the fact that I didn’t expect to find what I was looking for in said locality and didn’t look properly the first time. How much easier life would be, for me at least, if I knew where things were in the first place!

Now where did I last have my mobile? …

*Answers on a postcard please, or at least in the comments section!

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Spell Binding Stories UKS2

 

Just published, Spell Binding Stories UKS2. The third in a series of books using stories, poems and sketches to support the teaching of spelling at primary level. Supported by lesson ideas for each requirement of the primary National Curriculum in England. The pieces could also support second language learners attempting to master the idiosyncrasies of the English language! In this edition for example, Hercules Paintpot and his collaborators attempt to unravel a spelling mystery, we visit a school on a planet where words are not just worth their weight in gold - they are actually made of gold. We also experience the excitement and tension of the final in the series of the 'Set in for a Spell' quiz!

Paperback ISBN: 9798297102361

Kindle ASIN: B0FMNZ8BKT  (0 is a number)

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