I almost called this blog TALES OF THE UNEXPECTED, but for people of a certain age who remember the television series of bizarre, rather uncomfortable stories by Roald Dahl, that tends to mean something rather different. So I’ll stick with SERENDIPITY, which is such a lovely word, and conveys exactly the right meaning.
The dictionary defines Serendipity as “The occurrence and development
of events by chance in a happy or
beneficial way.” But then I made a
further serendipitous discovery: the dictionary went on to say it was “a word
coined by Horace Walpole, suggested by The Three Princes of Serendip, the title
of a fairy tale in which the heroes were
always making fortunate discoveries.”
How delightful is that?
Take shopping, for instance.
Yes, we can shop online at home, whether via a supermarket (if we can
get a delivery slot) or via a website – but if we do that we need to know exactly what
we want to buy before going online to buy it.
Although it can happen sometimes, there is less likelihood of “coming across
something by chance”, as we do if we’re browsing in a real, “non-essential” shop
(remember those?) So often, in the old
days, when I was out shopping (either on my own or with a friend – remember that?)
I would spot something I’d not even thought of, maybe in a shop I didn’t
normally go into, and realise it was exactly right for X’s birthday present, or
that it would perfectly match a top/jacket/skirt etc. that I already own, or that something I never knew
existed would be so useful in my garden/kitchen/study. Or I might bump into an old friend or
acquaintance, someone I hadn’t seen for ages, and we’d stop and chat and both come
away feeling cheered. Or it may be
seeing something beautiful/bizarre/unusual that makes us stop in our tracks and
look, or take a photo, to store in our memory for future reference. This is particularly likely when we’re away
on holiday, of course (ah yes, holidays!
Remember those?) On holiday we
often make chance discoveries – a secluded cove, an amazing view, a delightful cafĂ©, or simply something very unusual, which we can photograph and send to our friends or keep to remind us of what we found.
Of course I can come across things by chance while reading
the paper, a magazine, a book, or watching television, that gives me an idea,
but I maintain that it’s not the same as getting out into the real world and
seeing things for myself.
It’s the same with research.
Writers need to research all sorts of unlikely things when writing their books, and sometimes they need to experience these things
first-hand. For example, you may need to find out what it was like to travel on a steam train, or to row a boat against the current, or how to work a hot air balloon.
As I write this I know many of you will point out that when out
walking the dog you are always spotting interesting things, and many of you
post pictures of them online so we can all appreciate them. Which we do. So maybe it’s my fault that I haven’t made so
many chance discoveries. However, without a dog you
tend not to just walk for the sake of it, especially if the weather isn’t
enticing. Just walking round and round
your local park doesn’t quite cut it.
The trees do change, of course, with the seasons, and that’s lovely, but I still miss
being able to go a bit further afield and seeing something different. Surely I’m not alone in this?
And I’m sure I’m not alone in longing for the end of
Lockdown, when we can all leave home from time to time and see the world
outside. And maybe make some chance
discoveries!
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2 comments:
What a very apt post, Lynne, just as the the various "Rules" dates seem to be getting closer on the calendar. There's not that much that's unexpected in one's home after the long lockdowns and some ideas are best experienced or recaptured in the real world.
As for "escaping"? I'm in the "wait and see" mode about that, but maybe, with fingers crossed . . ?
Thanks, Penny!
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