Going through my past blogs, searching for inspiration for
this month’s blog, I found one I wrote over a year ago called “Tips for Writers”. Several fellow-writers at a writers’ retreat I’d
recently attended had put forward tips they found useful, and most of them are still valid. However, in the current difficult circumstances I felt some may need a little modification.
Here is the new version for 2020:
1 Set yourself achievable goals.
This may not be quite as easy as it once was. Okay, for the moment the children may be back at school, and
your partner may be back at work, but there is every chance that things may
change again very quickly. (Indeed, some things have already changed since yesterday when I wrote the first draft of this blog!) Then you may find
yourself once again having to help/teach/work around your children who have been sent home from school for an indefinite period because
one in their bubble has the virus. You may also have a partner who has suddenly been sent home from work for the same reason, and who may require your empathy in either raging with or soothing him/her. And all of them will need constant feeding! So what may once have felt like an achievable
goal, such as finishing your current book in x weeks, could take you a great deal
longer.
2 Walking is great for sorting things in your head.
Yes, it still is, if you can find the time to get out of the
house. Here I think people with dogs
have a great advantage – everyone accepts that the dog will always need walking, no matter what else
is going on in your life and your family’s life! Without that necessity it can be difficult to make time in
your day, and easy to make excuses for not going out. Even though you know it would do you good!
3 Avoid Social Media until after you have done your work for
the day!
It depends what you mean by Social Media. Facebook and emails could be important/urgent,
so I would glance at them first, though replying can usually wait till after I’ve
done my work for the day. I don’t do
Twitter, but I gather from people who do that it is full of people directing
their bile against anyone who disagrees with them, and other people (or maybe
the same ones?) coming up with weird conspiracy theories. (Not to mention a certain President who glories
in posting incendiary tweets on a regular basis!) So I would avoid Twitter at
all costs. To that I would also add
avoiding following the news until after you’ve done your work – hearing about the
latest crackpot idea someone has come up with can make you shout at the
television and put you in a bad mood for the rest of the day. Save it all till later, and then shout away!
4 Keep fan letters to remind yourself how much people
enjoy(ed) your work.
Excellent idea! Remind yourself that you can still do it, in spite of current
limitations.
5 Collect inspiring things around you.
Yes, of course. As
long as they are thoroughly sanitised in case you dare to pick them up!
6 Eat plenty of chocolate!!!
7 Don’t beat yourself up about things you can’t change…
…like Covid19 and all the restrictions about seeing your
families, social distancing etc. You can’t
beat anyone else up, either, (I'm thinking certain politicians here, not your nearest and dearest!) so maybe find another useful outlet for your
frustrations. Making bread is a very therapeutic exercise, with the added benefit of providing you with something good to eat! And one friend of mine, who
lived on a farm, used to take a broom and beat up a bale of hay whenever she felt angry, and
said it did her a lot of good!
8 Keep a work diary to show how much you’ve actually
achieved every week.
Yes, this is still a good idea, even if it shows how much
less you’ve actually done than what you’d
hoped to do. Bear in mind the
restrictions you’re living under at the moment and forgive yourself!
9 Fake enthusiasm, even if you don’t feel it.
Yes, if you can, though you may offend some people who are
having a hard time, or find others giving you strange looks.
10 Keep going, no matter how slowly.
Yes, even though you may find it going even more slowly than
you’d imagined. Many writer friends have
said that although they had initially looked upon Lockdown as an opportunity to
do lots of writing, they found that unaccountably they’d done less than
usual. There are too many other things taking up your headspace. So don’t worry if your book is taking a long time to write, you are not
alone!
11 Writing can help you through difficult times, eg divorce,
bereavement etc.
This is a really useful tip to bear in mind, especially at
the moment!
12 Reread an old book of yours to remind yourself just how
good you are/were/could be again.
This is still a good tip, especially if you are despairing
of ever writing anything publishable ever again. Which you will, you will!
In fact, there were 25 tips in all in my original blog, so
maybe I’ll just do half of them this time, and save the rest for next month
(when I may be having a similar dearth of new ideas!)
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5 comments:
Good list. Great blog. I've ruined a day or two reading the news too early.
Thanks Lynne - wise words!
Excellent advice!
Trying not to not watch for news is one of the hardest things: maybe in the strange belief that if you know you can cope with it better. A form of self protection?
Wise words, grown from those collected in a good time and place. Looking forward to next month's collection.
Very belatedly, I'm afraid, many thanks to you all for your kind comments!
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