The pace of life can be so fast these days. Many writers
have several jobs on top of writing. When we are writing we know that by its
very nature is solitary. You can spend hours on your own:
Writing.
Deleting.
Staring at blank screens/pieces of paper.
Doing research – best procrastination ever – often even now
that can be online so you might not see anyone.
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Yes that it is my favourite Lamy pen awaiting inspiration and given to me by a great friend/member of my tribe |
Between these moments of being caught up amid the pressure of
all the jobs and the writing on your own there is a risk that you might not
keep in contact with your ‘tribe’.
I use the term ‘tribe’ loosely but mean in the sense of community
who share the same ‘language’, a close-knit group who get what you are trying
to do and understand the problems you might be facing. You are probably a member of several ‘tribes.
They maybe are interlinked. Everyone’s tribe could and should be different. I
know in my own family ‘tribe’ if I start talking about writing they get that
glazed look of someone who is listening politely but really doesn’t care. They
ask me polite questions but don’t get the process and wonder why things happen
the way they do in publishing. It is difficult sometimes to explain. The tribe
I am talking about here are fellow writers, editors, publishers and agents.
People that you come across during your journey.
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Due to my disability and work commitments, it often means I
can’t get to some of the amazing events and book launches that happen. I watch
from a distance. Relying on social media
for an insight into what is going on there while offering support and congratulations. There are some
people who are quick to knock social media and it does have its moments, but I
have made some wonderful friends through there and keep contact with many.
Social media moves fast and there are all sorts of political and ethical issues
connected with some as well. I am not entering into those debates in this
piece. For me, I use Twitter, Instagram, WhatsApp and Facebook, for the moment. When you have something to
celebrate there is nothing like the social media hug you receive. People are so
supportive. I will add a caveat don’t be
afraid to step back from social media at times. There are times it can be
overwhelming. I regularly take a break.
Do also check out the hashtags on Twitter that @AnnalieseAvery sets up, she always
has exciting things planned and is brilliant at bringing people into the tribe. I also love podcasts (@damian_barr is another one to follow - great podcasts and book info). They are wonderful things to talk about on Twitter if you are nervous about getting involved.
In the last couple of weeks though I have been reminded of
how important it is to actually physically see the people in your tribe. I know
I said it is not always easy for me, which makes it really special when I do.
Later in the week, I found myself in a beautiful, if wet, Sheffield,
once again surrounded by awesome authors at the Sheffield Children’s Book Award. In
particular, it was brilliant to meet the author Andy Sheperd IRL as we have so
much in common. We spent the day catching up whenever we could. Touching base
and understanding we come from the same place. We laughed so much.
I confess for a moment when I sat in the auditorium of The
Crucible Theatre, surrounded by hundreds and hundreds
of school children who have read your book I felt pretty emotional. It was another
great reminder of what an awesome tribe your readers can be. I also remembered exactly why I write. For everyone
in that place. Readers, librarians and teachers are fabulous. They are a great
tribe to be part of too, so enthusiastic.
Both occasions were a great reminder that sometimes you just need to stop and talk with your tribe. Importantly
as previously mentioned I know it is not always about the good stuff. Don’t be
afraid to reach out if you are having a tough time. Your tribe will have your
back. It often helps just being able to talk about things.
If in doubt, find your tribes. I know I am lucky with all
mine.
Dr Vanessa Harbour
@VanessaHarbour
1 comment:
Quite agree, Vanessa - I have always found great friendship and support among the writers' tribe!
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