tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7780182174577095197.post5625262259748601857..comments2024-03-25T09:56:16.164+00:00Comments on An Awfully Big Blog Adventure: In which I control my addiction - Nicola MorganUnknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger17125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7780182174577095197.post-39786387396295398422011-10-03T09:00:17.552+01:002011-10-03T09:00:17.552+01:00Leila - that;s why I'm not going to leave FB e...Leila - that;s why I'm not going to leave FB entirely, but I've gradually been "unfriending" (gah!) the people who I don't personally properly connect with, especially if I can also be in touch with them on Twitter, which is a different environment, more like a crowded room where it doesn't matter of you don't speak to everyone.<br /><br />Lucy - yes, Stroppy's point about claiming your name is a good one. And your point about it being freeing to say no is true, too.<br /><br />Bookwitch - books? Talking of which, must go and work :)Nicola Morganhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12189894289540344094noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7780182174577095197.post-48117255558447529382011-10-02T17:32:33.981+01:002011-10-02T17:32:33.981+01:00I believe you even write books?
Agree about Farmv...I believe you even write books?<br /><br />Agree about Farmville. I've blocked it, and try to forget even my dear children waste their time on that.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7780182174577095197.post-22543521330918931822011-10-02T12:50:41.197+01:002011-10-02T12:50:41.197+01:00Yes, Nicola, I have. I'm close to quitting FB ...Yes, Nicola, I have. I'm close to quitting FB as well, but what keeps me there is that I have loads of friends in foreign countries who I would never hear from otherwise. And who are a nostalgic part of my life. But there are certainly some other groups I'll try and leave. Real life calls! :)Leila Rasheedhttp://www.leilarasheed.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7780182174577095197.post-74559783073815662082011-10-02T09:43:36.825+01:002011-10-02T09:43:36.825+01:00In an example of 'communicating with existing ...In an example of 'communicating with existing friends in umpteen places', we've talked about this on FB, and I agree entirely with what you say, Nicola, as you know. I'm on many many forums, all of which I joined in a spirit of 'should', but to be honest, after an initial flurry, I never go to any of them now. Linked In is a 'wait and see', as is Google +. As Stroppy Author says, it's best to claim your own name on these things, even if you don't use them very much. I wrote a post on this very blog earlier in the summer about 'going dark'. I think it's very necessary to have that balance - and that choice. However, it did feel very odd to shuck off that cloak of internet presence at the start. Afterwards it was hugely freeing. It's good to remember that!Lucy Coatshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16774389681477698245noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7780182174577095197.post-75198657516337915382011-10-02T07:55:00.630+01:002011-10-02T07:55:00.630+01:00Excellent points, Nicola. I've never been as i...Excellent points, Nicola. I've never been as involved as you, but still feel the need to back off, especially when writing - all this flitting about is the enemy of writing. I have taken the simple measure of "unbookmarking" Facebook, which means that I can't just flick there in an idle moment. It's a simple thing, but makes quite a difference.<br /> <br />But it's great that you have joined Authors Electric, and will be Tweeting on our behalf.Linda Newberynoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7780182174577095197.post-90746293921958551762011-10-01T14:10:31.515+01:002011-10-01T14:10:31.515+01:00All very fascinating! Can't wait to hear you s...All very fascinating! Can't wait to hear you speak this time next week and see you in the flesh, as it were. But I have never facebooked...didn't like that at all. Now I Tweet but not very much. I blog here on ABBA and on History Girls and that's about all I'm prepared to do. Go through my Twitter twice a day or so to catch up on other people's gossip....different strokes etc.adelehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15826710558292792068noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7780182174577095197.post-58509779580290227412011-10-01T12:56:01.407+01:002011-10-01T12:56:01.407+01:00'I'd rather sell fewer books but actually ...'I'd rather sell fewer books but actually have a life' - I have said that for years. Or actually a variant of it - I'd rather sell fewer copies and write more books. Hence no school visits. Ever.<br /><br />Yes, I've cut down over the last few months. Actually, over the last year. But I've been on all these things since before anyone arrived, except the geeks (and built my first website in 1997) so for a while it was like being at a really rather quiet party and then lots of people turned up. So I put a bit more energy into it all for a while, but then cut back again. <br /><br />Incidentally, you don't need to see any Farmville updates. You can block Facebook from showing you any updates by silly applications and games. And you can group all the friends you should not have accepted into a single a group (in a single operation) and give them minimal access to anything you say or do. Much quicker than deleting them.<br /><br />It's worth having an account on anything in which you want to own your own name. As children's writers, it would not be good for us if our names on Facebook were owned by porn stars, for example. And it's worth keeping up enough online presence to stay at the top of the Google search for your name. Unless you are called John Smith, in which case you will have to become a serial killer to stand any chance.<br /><br />Actually, most of my online time now is spent on Skype - talking to the people I would in the real world go round and see if only they lived closer.Stroppy Authorhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16560035800075465845noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7780182174577095197.post-64329888058657734052011-10-01T11:08:50.094+01:002011-10-01T11:08:50.094+01:00To be honest, Linda, it wasn't bravery but des...To be honest, Linda, it wasn't bravery but desperation. It all felt just too much and I felt pushed by the "you need to do this if you're to sell books" message - but you know, I'd rather sell fewer books but actually have a life. And I can have a life while doing a LOT of online stuff but I needed to find what was enough and what was too much.<br /><br />Good point about the shoe-shop!Nicola Morganhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12189894289540344094noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7780182174577095197.post-28251638304587875152011-10-01T10:28:56.009+01:002011-10-01T10:28:56.009+01:00SO true, Nicola. Well done for taking control of i...SO true, Nicola. Well done for taking control of it so bravely.<br /><br />It is very enticing and like sweeties in a shop window, (or perhaps since this is you, Nicola, it should be a shoe shop window!) because there is always something new to try or another blog or post or tweet to write.<br /><br />Love your comment, Michelle!<br /><br />Yes, there is a lovely world out there which has nothing to do with being on social networks, and real people to speak to IN PERSON - WOW how radical is that!<br /><br />It is too easy to spend far too much time here and not enough actually writing. <br /><br />It should perhaps be the treat to spend a little time on this now and then. It can so easily become an addiction and as destructive as any other.Linda Strachanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04354324158228109351noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7780182174577095197.post-57754993011040963042011-10-01T10:04:04.567+01:002011-10-01T10:04:04.567+01:00Fascinating post, Nicola. You truly are a world-w...Fascinating post, Nicola. You truly are a world-wide-webbed creature! Thank you for sharing where you've been and what you've done. <br /><br />What did writers do for distraction and displacement activity before the internet? I can't even remember. Was there something about getting dressed and going ... outside the house, even??? I know it seems weird and radical.michelle lovrichttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01026972300195225090noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7780182174577095197.post-22689776301968254402011-10-01T10:00:18.851+01:002011-10-01T10:00:18.851+01:00Yikes, I didn't mean to suggest that anyone sh...Yikes, I didn't mean to suggest that anyone should not read any of the high quality material out there - including, of course, ABBA and Authors Electric! I just mean the time spent on a) too many discussion forums and b) duplicating networking opportunities that end up saying the same things to the same people, needs to be controlled and that many of us feel obliged to be doing everything. <br /><br />And Susan - Twitter is a joy and a benefit to me so I'm delighted to do electric tweeting, too!Nicola Morganhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12189894289540344094noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7780182174577095197.post-41620488833439588182011-10-01T09:45:20.768+01:002011-10-01T09:45:20.768+01:00I've kicked and screamed about each new intern...I've kicked and screamed about each new internet thing I've had to grapple with - but now I've grown to love my website, my (once a week) blog, my first e-book publication (with the support of Authors Electric), my Kindle. Back to the food analogy, I'm that kid who insists they don't like mushrooms and has never tried them. So, though I feel my plate is full, perhaps there really is room for one little, thin, chocolate wafer ...Joan Lennonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15763862159032836768noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7780182174577095197.post-10361057902933335052011-10-01T09:25:48.840+01:002011-10-01T09:25:48.840+01:00Think this sense of "too much media" is ...Think this sense of "too much media" is a common one just at the moment, with people starting to want their real lives back. Well said, Nicola.<br /><br />Though I do hope you'll all keep reading Awfully Big Blog Adventure as we're starting our new "Bookseller Sunday" series tomorrow!<br />What's that real world like, then?Penny Dolanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16386668303428008498noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7780182174577095197.post-78890601538885527592011-10-01T09:19:36.032+01:002011-10-01T09:19:36.032+01:00All you say is true, as ever, Nicola - but we at A...All you say is true, as ever, Nicola - but we at Authors Electric are grateful to you for selflessly throwing yourself on Twitter for our sake!Susan Pricehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07738737493756183909noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7780182174577095197.post-65154009414724289572011-10-01T09:10:13.448+01:002011-10-01T09:10:13.448+01:00At the moment I've got a wall round it all. A ...At the moment I've got a wall round it all. A blog I write twice a week. FB - I dip into. Twitter (that can eat hours if I'm not careful). Plenty of blogs to read and comment on (though I do find I'm repeating myself). Litopia - I don't give than enough time to be useful to anyone.<br /><br />And still the suggestions I should join another forum, read more blogs. LinkedIn. KIndle forums. Google+.<br /><br />I know I need an online platform. But I also need a life - and there comes a point where the online chitchat isn't fun! And that, for me, is my limit. If I'm not enjoying it, then there's no point. I'll do what I can. And then go read a book, or write a story, or go for a walk, or even - dare I say it - talk to a real person!JOhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03127111575563904349noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7780182174577095197.post-77803398233795534882011-10-01T08:37:13.496+01:002011-10-01T08:37:13.496+01:00I put a paw onto FB occasionally. I write a blog p...I put a paw onto FB occasionally. I write a blog post each day and I comment on here, your Help I need a Publisher blog and, occasionally, on others. I keep one eye on Twitter (where I have two accounts - one of which is strictly work. Yes, you can work on Twitter - it is amazing how much you can get done if you limit what you are able to say!) <br />That's it - my e-mail boxes are quite enough to deal with apart from that.<br />If you want to write then you have to be disciplined about these things.catdownunderhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06959328192182156574noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7780182174577095197.post-40789562079624243262011-10-01T06:45:56.359+01:002011-10-01T06:45:56.359+01:00I have resisted Facebook, and will continue to do ...I have resisted Facebook, and will continue to do so. After vowing not to tweet, I opened a Twitter account, but only to promote our daily offering at <a href="http://poetry-24.blogspot.com/" rel="nofollow">Poetry24</a>.<br /><br />I signed up for Google+ but I never have the time to go there. You're right, Nicola, it's all about balance.Martinhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13494219959077922220noreply@blogger.com